Desire Howland

Desire Howland

Female Abt 1625 - 1683  (58 years)


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  • Name Desire Howland  [1, 2, 3
    Birth Abt 1625  Plymouth, Plymouth, Massachusetts, United States Find all individuals with events at this location  [1, 3
    Gender Female 
    FSID L5N1-9N2 
    Burial 1683  Barnstable, Massachusetts, United States Find all individuals with events at this location  [3
    Death 13 Oct 1683  Barnstable, Massachusetts, United States Find all individuals with events at this location  [1, 2, 3
    Person ID I796  footsteps
    Last Modified 27 Nov 2025 

    Father John Howland, Sr. of Fenstanton,   b. Abt 1599, Huntingdonshire, England Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 23 Feb 1673, Plymouth, Massachusetts, United States Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 74 years) 
    Relationship natural 
    Mother Elizabeth Tilley,   b. Bef 30 Aug 1607, Bedfordshire, England Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 21 Dec 1687, Bristol, Massachusetts, United States Find all individuals with events at this location (Age > 80 years) 
    Relationship natural 
    Marriage Abt 1623  Plymouth, Massachusetts, United States Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Age at Marriage John was ~ 24 years - Elizabeth was ~ 15 years and 4 months
    Family ID F890  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family Captain John Gorham,   b. Bef 28 Jan 1621, Northinghamshire, England Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Feb 1676, Plymouth, Massachusetts, United States Find all individuals with events at this location (Age > 55 years) 
    Marriage Abt 1643  Plymouth, Plymouth, Massachusetts, United States Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Age at Marriage Desire was ~ 18 years - John was ~ 21 years and 11 months. 
    Children 
    +1. Shubael Gorham,   b. 21 Oct 1667, Barnstable, Massachusetts, United States Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 7 Aug 1750, Barnstable, Massachusetts, United States Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 82 years)  [Father: unknown]  [Mother: unknown]
    +2. Joseph Gorham,   b. 16 Feb 1654, Yarmouth, Barnstable, Massachusetts, United States Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 9 Jul 1726, Yarmouth, Barnstable, Massachusetts, United States Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 72 years)  [Father: natural]  [Mother: natural]
    Family ID F891  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 27 Nov 2025 

  • Notes 
    • Howland's slave Totoo/Tata
      If anyone learns more about Totoo, enslaved by the Gorham's, send me a m essage.

      Totoo is identified as Mrs Gorham's slave in 3 sources (added to source s); as here from “Old Cape Cod: The Land, the Men, the Sea":

      "Old Totoo, slave to Mrs. Gorham, of Barnstable, survived her eight yea rs and, dying, begged that he might be buried at his mistress's feet. I n 1678, two Indians of Sandwich, convicted of stealing twenty five poun ds, were sentenced to be sold, for the profit of their victims, somewhe re in New England as 'perpetual slaves" (103-04).

      Desire Howland Gorham's inventory references a person named "tota" in h er household: "beding & sheets that tota makes use of" (p 219). The ind ex identifies Tota as an "indian" (p 279).

      If Totoo/Tota is enslaved in 1675-76, then s/he is almost surely 1 of t he hundreds of Wampanoag the English sold into slavery at the end of Me tacom's War (King Philip's War).

      Epitaph
      Desire Gorham's Epitaph per Page 1, front page of the Monday, July 28, 1 913 edition of the Barnstable Patriot: "Let us walk in God's Acre, 'ti s the hour of the gloaming, The sun has gone down in the luminous west, H ere the forefathers and foremothers by steadfast hope strengthened Thei r life's fitful fever ended, were laid to their rest. Here lies Desire H owland, wife of Capt. John Gorham, Daughter of John Howland, Mayflower P ilgrim was he, In the shadow of the meeting-house, on Cobb's Hill, in o ld Barnstable, Overlooking the harbor and the far away sea. Earnest Ch ristian, wise counsellor, true friend and kind neighbor, Like a queen s he reigned over her little domain. The heart of her husband did safely t rust in her, A myriad of descendants rise and bless her loved name. Whe n old Totoo,her black slave, felt his last hours approaching, Would his h ouse set in order, the death angel to meet, Expressed his fond wish, a nd his dearest ambition, To be laid, when he died, at his dead mistress ' feet. Oh, happy the heart full of loyal affection, Love lightens its l abors, makes each bitter draught sweet, And rich is the life, sure of o ne soul's pure devotion, Tho' it is but a slave's, laid, when dead, at h er feet." Neponset, Mass. P T. C.
      Howland's slave Totoo/Tata
      If anyone learns more about Totoo, enslaved by the Gorham's, send me a m e ssage.

      Totoo is identified as Mrs Gorham's slave in 3 sources (added to source s ); as here from “Old Cape Cod: The Land, the Men, the Sea":

      "Old Totoo, slave to Mrs. Gorham, of Barnstable, survived her eight yea r s and, dying, begged that he might be buried at his mistress's feet. I n 1 678, two Indians of Sandwich, convicted of stealing twenty five poun ds , were sentenced to be sold, for the profit of their victims, somewhe r e in New England as 'perpetual slaves" (103-04).

      Desire Howland Gorham's inventory references a person named "tota" in h e r household: "beding & sheets that tota makes use of" (p 219). The ind e x identifies Tota as an "indian" (p 279).

      If Totoo/Tota is enslaved in 1675-76, then s/he is almost surely 1 of t h e hundreds of Wampanoag the English sold into slavery at the end of Me t acom's War (King Philip's War).

      Epitaph
      Desire Gorham's Epitaph per Page 1, front page of the Monday, July 28, 1 9 13 edition of the Barnstable Patriot: "Let us walk in God's Acre, 'ti s t he hour of the gloaming, The sun has gone down in the luminous west, H e re the forefathers and foremothers by steadfast hope strengthened Thei r l ife's fitful fever ended, were laid to their rest. Here lies Desire H o wland, wife of Capt. John Gorham, Daughter of John Howland, Mayflower P i lgrim was he, In the shadow of the meeting-house, on Cobb's Hill, in o l d Barnstable, Overlooking the harbor and the far away sea. Earnest Ch r istian, wise counsellor, true friend and kind neighbor, Like a queen s h e reigned over her little domain. The heart of her husband did safely t r ust in her, A myriad of descendants rise and bless her loved name. Whe n o ld Totoo,her black slave, felt his last hours approaching, Would his h o use set in order, the death angel to meet, Expressed his fond wish, a n d his dearest ambition, To be laid, when he died, at his dead mistress ' f eet. Oh, happy the heart full of loyal affection, Love lightens its l a bors, makes each bitter draught sweet, And rich is the life, sure of o n e soul's pure devotion, Tho' it is but a slave's, laid, when dead, at h e r feet." Neponset, Mass. P T. C.
      Howland's slave Totoo/Tata
      If anyone learns more about Totoo, enslaved by the Gorham's, send me a m essage.

      Totoo is identified as Mrs Gorham's slave in 3 sources (added to source s); as here from “Old Cape Cod: The Land, the Men, the Sea":

      "Old Totoo, slave to Mrs. Gorham, of Barnstable, survived her eight yea rs and, dying, begged that he might be buried at his mistress's feet. I n 1678, two Indians of Sandwich, convicted of stealing twenty five poun ds, were sentenced to be sold , for the profit of their victims, somewhe re in New England as 'perpetual slaves" (103-04).

      Desire Howland Gorham's inventory references a person named "tota" in h er household: "beding & sheets that tota makes use of" (p 219). The ind ex identifies Tota as an "indian" (p 279).

      If Totoo/Tota is enslaved in 1675-76, then s/he is almost surely 1 of t he hundreds of Wampanoag the English sold into slavery at the end of Me tacom's War (King Philip's War).

      Epitaph
      Desire Gorham's Epitaph per Page 1, front page of the Monday, July 28, 1 913 edition of the Barnstable Patriot: "Let us walk in God's Acre, 'ti s the hour of the gloaming, The sun has gone down in the luminous west, H ere the forefathers and fore mothers by steadfast hope strengthened Thei r life's fitful fever ended, were laid to their rest. Here lies Desire H owland, wife of Capt. John Gorham, Daughter of John Howland, Mayflower P ilgrim was he, In the shadow of the meeting-house, on Co bb's Hill, in o ld Barnstable, Overlooking the harbor and the far away sea. Earnest Ch ristian, wise counsellor, true friend and kind neighbor, Like a queen s he reigned over her little domain. The heart of her husband did safely t rust in her , A myriad of descendants rise and bless her loved name. Whe n old Totoo,her black slave, felt his last hours approaching, Would his h ouse set in order, the death angel to meet, Expressed his fond wish, a nd his dearest ambition, To be laid, whe n he died, at his dead mistress ' feet. Oh, happy the heart full of loyal affection, Love lightens its l abors, makes each bitter draught sweet, And rich is the life, sure of o ne soul's pure devotion, Tho' it is but a slave's, laid, when dead, a t h er feet." Neponset, Mass. P T. C.
      Howland's slave Totoo/Tata
      If anyone learns more about Totoo, enslaved by the Gorham's, send me a m e ssage.

      Totoo is identified as Mrs Gorham's slave in 3 sources (added to source s ); as here from “Old Cape Cod: The Land, the Men, the Sea":

      "Old Totoo, slave to Mrs. Gorham, of Barnstable, survived her eight yea r s and, dying, begged that he might be buried at his mistress's feet. I n 1 678, two Indians of Sandwich, convicted of stealing twenty five poun ds , were sentenced to be sol d, for the profit of their victims, somewhe r e in New England as 'perpetual slaves" (103-04).

      Desire Howland Gorham's inventory references a person named "tota" in h e r household: "beding & sheets that tota makes use of" (p 219). The ind e x identifies Tota as an "indian" (p 279).

      If Totoo/Tota is enslaved in 1675-76, then s/he is almost surely 1 of t h e hundreds of Wampanoag the English sold into slavery at the end of Me t acom's War (King Philip's War).

      Epitaph
      Desire Gorham's Epitaph per Page 1, front page of the Monday, July 28, 1 9 13 edition of the Barnstable Patriot: "Let us walk in God's Acre, 'ti s t he hour of the gloaming, The sun has gone down in the luminous west, H e re the forefathers and f oremothers by steadfast hope strengthened Thei r l ife's fitful fever ended, were laid to their rest. Here lies Desire H o wland, wife of Capt. John Gorham, Daughter of John Howland, Mayflower P i lgrim was he, In the shadow of the meeting-house , on Cobb's Hill, in o l d Barnstable, Overlooking the harbor and the far away sea. Earnest Ch r istian, wise counsellor, true friend and kind neighbor, Like a queen s h e reigned over her little domain. The heart of her husband did safely t r u st in her, A myriad of descendants rise and bless her loved name. Whe n o ld Totoo,her black slave, felt his last hours approaching, Would his h o use set in order, the death angel to meet, Expressed his fond wish, a n d his dearest ambition, T o be laid, when he died, at his dead mistress ' f eet. Oh, happy the heart full of loyal affection, Love lightens its l a bors, makes each bitter draught sweet, And rich is the life, sure of o n e soul's pure devotion, Tho' it is but a slave's, l aid, when dead, at h e r feet." Neponset, Mass. P T. C.

  • Sources 
    1. [S27] Find a Grave Index, "Find a Grave Index"FamilySearch (https://www./ark:/61903/1:1:QVVK-KN39 : Thu Apr 03 03:58:18 UTC 2025), Entry for Desire Howland Gorham.

    2. [S76] Massachusetts, Town Clerk, Vital and Town Records, 1626-2001, "Massachusetts, Town Clerk, Vital and Town Records, 1626-2001"FamilySearch (https://www./ark:/61903/1:1:Q29G-PVHC : Fri Mar 08 12:49:45 UTC 2024), Entry for Desire Gorham, 13 Oct 1683.

    3. [S291] Maine, Nathan Hale Cemetery Collection, ca. 1780-1980, "Maine, Nathan Hale Cemetery Collection, ca. 1780-1980"FamilySearch (https://www./ark:/61903/1:1:QVJ5-WDJ8 : Thu Mar 07 23:56:42 UTC 2024), Entry for Desire Howland Gorham, 1683.